But there's another side of no. The other side of no also wants to play nice and be friends. It is also an invitation. An invitation to redirect and refocus on what you really want, and what God really wants from you.
For me that realization came when I decided to give up sugar for a season. Not because I needed to, but because I wanted to.
I don't want to be driven by a compulsive need to consume. I really want to please God. I really want to improve the relationships with the people around me, and I really do care about people who are suffering.
I imagine you are at a point in your life when you might need to give up something you like in order to get something you want.
Is there something in your life that's bossing you around? It's time to kick that nastiness to the curb like a bad banana. It's time to tell it "you aren't the boss of me" and mean it. It's time to find the beautiful, greener pastures that are found when you're willing to say no. Maybe for a season, maybe forever.
Do it. I believe in you.
2 comments:
I shouldn't/should be reading this. I'm at a point where I want to scream "NO!!!" at everything, but all that comes out is a nod & a smile. GAH!
SO proud of you on your journey! Keep posting things to keep me inspired1
I need to say "No" to after dinner snacking it is so caught up to ne,
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